Tips on How to Be A better CoUpLe Juni 16, 2007Posted by safruddin in Inspirasi.
Tips on How to B A better CoUpLe
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don’t try to turn ur partner into something
he or she is not. Let’s face it, guys-there’s only 1 Pamela
Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants
removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her
physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with
the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad
Pitt has already been taken, so u’re gonna have to do with
what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u
are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime
or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works
with the gals. Don’t make assumptions about each other’s
feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner
understands what u’re angry about, or hurt about, or even
happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the
heart, it’s the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do
some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities;
something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be
as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling
hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccer with him once
in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in
3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another
day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out
with her girlfriends for “that sort of activities” instead.
If u’re spending more time with ur friends rather than with
ur partner, it’s a warning sign that u’re drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten
T-shirt with the “The_Rock” print, u shouldn’t kick up much
of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy. There’s gotta
be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn
to meet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow
and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It’s
wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him
or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine’s
Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can’t wear ( like for
decoration purposes ==> ), buy him a packet of milk for
breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him…so he knows u can
still be romantic and loving despite having been together
for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or
whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks
if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about
his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel
worse! Love is about respecting each other’s feelings and
being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don’t bring
up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would
jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don’t talk about
the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her
in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel
un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b’cos u
are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru’ spells of insecurity at
the beginning of the relationship, but don’t translate that
insecurity into jealousy. If u’re gonna go through ur
partner’s mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on
conversations, u know something is wrong – with u!!!
Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru’ the
relationship before finally killing it. Trust ur partner;
love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time
and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk!
If u’re in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and
don’t disappoint them if u can help it. It’s really
terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and
then calls to cancel it. Don’t make promises u can’t keep.
If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important
enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she
looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he
has the biceps of a fly~! When we say “be honest”, we mean
expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel.
When u’re hurt, say so, and when u’re angry, tell him/her,
w/o getting hysterical. If u can’t be honest with ur
partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about
honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists
probably isn’t worth it!
to 5 people and u’ll have gd luck
to 10 people or more and u’ll have
lots of gd luck in ur love life